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permalink #1451 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Tue 17 Sep 02 12:46
permalink #1451 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Tue 17 Sep 02 12:46
I've ordered from Amazon 6 times now, and all 6 times something went wrong from their end. Maybe it's just me and Amazon. Or maybe it's the number 6. I'd just rather not go their if I don't have to. *** Meg- Scarlet's Walk is Tori Amos' new album. There's some limited edition version of it coming out (released at the same time as the regular CD), which is also a DVD (does anyone know what's on it?)If you go to Thedent.com you can find out everything you want to know about it (except what's on the DVD) and more... *** Janell- Hello. Oh your poor foot! I hope it gets better. I'm glad I've never met Harlan. I love his work, but he sounds mean. I'd love to eat sushi with Neil, though, and discuss the weirdness of Sea Urchin. *** I could have white hair. I wouldn't know, though, as I dye it too often. When I get old I hope I get white hair as opposed to grey. That would be bitchin'.
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permalink #1452 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Tue 17 Sep 02 12:58
permalink #1452 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Tue 17 Sep 02 12:58
I think when I get old enough so I look wierd with non-grey hair - ie OBviously too old for the color to be natural, I think I'll dye it that pale lavender blue my Granny had her hair all the years I knew her. I loved that silvery blue shade. I wonder if the dye for that is even still around. It wasn't until I was in my late teens before I realized this color wasn't exactly natural. I've seen the silvery white hair of some older women and rather liked that. I think I'll just switch from whatever color I have now to the white or gray or even the pale blue without waiting to grow it out and see what it looks like in between.
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permalink #1453 of 1963: Mary Roane (the-roane) Tue 17 Sep 02 15:14
permalink #1453 of 1963: Mary Roane (the-roane) Tue 17 Sep 02 15:14
I look forward to grey, but then, my mom has the most lovely white hair you've ever seen. It's the getting there that worries me. It's a medium red right now (not carroty, but not true auburn either) with the beginnings of a Bonnie Raitt streak on my left side. I don't want to dye, but some of the redheads I've seen go grey.......yuck. Perhaps I shall dye it emerald green, like I've always wanted to (blonde? that's easy. *Anyone* can do that ;-) ). I wonder what it will be like to no longer be "that redhead". I'll bet it's going to be weird. I have rather more of my identity tied up in my hair than I'd like to admit. How odd. How is it possible that *both* Jackie Chan & Bono were in Chicago yesterday, and I didn't know? Neil has spoilt me with his clear and up-to-date schedule. He's much too easy to keep track of. ;-) Mary (still reading Drums of Autumn, and wondering how long she'll be able to hold out before buying Fiery Cross)
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permalink #1454 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Tue 17 Sep 02 20:02
permalink #1454 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Tue 17 Sep 02 20:02
I know what you mean about the identity thing. I had long long hair for most of the years of my life and cut it this year (donated the hair to Locks of Love) and now although I like the appearance of my hair in a well-done cut and like how easy it is to keep, I still miss being the one with hair longer than anyone in the vicinity. I even had a teacher at the Art Institute MEASURE my hair and get upset because it was longer than his. But. Things pass. My sister has that gorgeous auburn red hair and hers is getting grey. It DOES look awful. My aunt (in her 90s) commented when she saw me last that obviously I would be like her and never go grey (she dyes her hair also). That pulled me up short. Then I saw this EXTREMELY obviously elderly lady. Very wrinkled face. Walker. Etc. with JET BLACK hair so obviously fake it screamed. That's when I decided to start using the lighter hair colors so that the gray hairs would be picked up as blonde because the brown hairs never picked up the blonde very well. It only lightens them a very little. It does help me a bit because my skin's so pale that the lighter hair color is not so much a contrast that the chocolate brown was. I tried black once. Everybody in art class at Community College loved it.But then. They were mostly artsy goth teens. Which I liked. we got along well. With my very pale skin, blue eyes, the black seemed so very wierd. I took to wearing dark red or burgandy lipstick too. It was fun but not me.
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permalink #1455 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 10:20
permalink #1455 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 10:20
I'm currently in mourning for my blue hair. http://www.fullriotpussycat.org/pics/sio/hair/P1010324-r.html I've had blue hair for nearly 8 months, and I've gotten really used to people stopping me on the street about it, or being instantly recognizable by shopkeepers. But, I decided that I just didn't want to deal with the possible orneriness of potential employers about my odd hair color, so I've dyed it all black again. Getting a job is currently more important than the hair color. I'm just hoping I can find yet another tech job where no one cares what I look like, and I can go back to the blue. I got more compliments on that color, than anything I've ever done with my hair.
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permalink #1456 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 10:27
permalink #1456 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 10:27
Erynn - Aaah, that's right, thank you! I've been hearing one of the tracks on the radio and its absolutely lovely! I'm really looking forward to her new album. I really -wanted- to enjoy Strange Little Girls, but I just couldn't get into it.
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permalink #1457 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Wed 18 Sep 02 11:40
permalink #1457 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Wed 18 Sep 02 11:40
That was such a beautifl shade of blue! Where did you get the dye for it? Maybe you could get a wig of about that color and wear it when you're not actually AT work. Or, the other way, get a wig of normal color and wear that while you ARE at work and wear your own hair blue when not.
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permalink #1458 of 1963: Maure Luke (maureluke) Wed 18 Sep 02 11:54
permalink #1458 of 1963: Maure Luke (maureluke) Wed 18 Sep 02 11:54
Meg, That is a gorgeous shade of blue! I found that Strange Little Girls grew on me, while I wasn't looking, in a very sneaky way. I listened to the album when I bought it, and didn't like it very much (except for Raining Blood, which gave me the chills), and put it away. Then one day I was craving something specific, and I went through maybe a dozen cds' first tracks before I realized that what I wanted was something I had decided I didn't like, and now I listen to it every once in a while. And I like it. Strange Little Girls is sort of like pot stickers. For me. Neil, re: your journal entry plug for Three Fingers -- I bought it through the artbomb.net off-shoot orderingcomics.com, and just loved it. Seriously twisted, and almost disturbing, but funny as all get-out. I gave it to Tara to read last week. Artbomb.net is a great little tool. So, I might get a job this week. I have an interview, and I've never not been offered a job after an interview. It would be good if I could get it. I only need a job for about three months, though, and employers seem to frown upon people who admit that they'll be leaving after three months. Maybe I should not admit it. The upside is that I've started reading The Dragon Waiting, and the no-job thing is conducive to reading. The downside is, of course, a lack of food, but that could also be a very good thing. I was talking to my brother, and he mentioned that in a handful of months, he might be ready to invest in my imaginary comic cafe, which would work a great deal toward making it non-imaginary. That would be neat.
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permalink #1459 of 1963: Mary Roane (the-roane) Wed 18 Sep 02 13:03
permalink #1459 of 1963: Mary Roane (the-roane) Wed 18 Sep 02 13:03
Ooo, Meg, preeeetty! Maure--yay! job. Perhaps you shouldn't mention the 3 month thing. I used to feel guilty about that sort of thing, but the older I get, the less I feel any obligation to treat Corporate America with courtesy. Did you check out the temp services? They might have something. I *loved* temping. No office politics (you're not there long enough) no managers with vendettas (ditto), no feeling that you're in hell and there's no way out (this is becoming waaaay too about me, isn't it?) Anyway, break a leg! I have rediscovered my love of Minesweeper, and it is *not* a Good Thing. Dodge--go you for donating your hair! I think that is so cool. I wish we had planned better before we cut my waist length straight hair before my first perm a few years ago. We took off 12-18 inches in spots. Mary (off to try her hand at Free Cell)
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permalink #1460 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Wed 18 Sep 02 13:08
permalink #1460 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Wed 18 Sep 02 13:08
oohh, I miss having blue hair. Mine goes between dark auburn to black now. Jobs. I had to take out the nose ring too. Apparently it's a "health code violation" to wear one in restaurants. I liked SLG right away, although the Doogie Howser piano took a while to grow on me. But that's what I like about Tori. There's a different sound, feel, and mood for every album. And different clothes too. Sonically and lyrically songs once not very prevalent seeming cling somewhere deep inside of you at odd random moments in your life. Tori needs her own topic here. I know it won't happen, but one can dream.
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permalink #1461 of 1963: Adriana Roze (ariadne26) Wed 18 Sep 02 16:59
permalink #1461 of 1963: Adriana Roze (ariadne26) Wed 18 Sep 02 16:59
Speaking of temping, HAIKU TUNNEL! All must watch! Fun and laughter! Office mayhem! Lots of exclamation points! I'm a temp, and going a bit crazy today. After a YEAR AND A HALF I have been upgraded to an actual Warner Bros. cubicle. The sad part of this cautionary tale is that I am THRILLED to have my own cubicle. Thrilled. For a cubicle.
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permalink #1462 of 1963: Adriana Roze (ariadne26) Wed 18 Sep 02 16:59
permalink #1462 of 1963: Adriana Roze (ariadne26) Wed 18 Sep 02 16:59
Wait, Doogie Howser piano? Did I miss something?
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permalink #1463 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 18:14
permalink #1463 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 18:14
Thanks for the compliments, everyone! :) The blue dye I use is called "Blue Mayhem" and its made by Special Effects. There are several places that carry it online, a store in SF called Ebony (near the Safeway by JapanTown) and Hot Topics all over the country. (I'm sure there are more, but I don't know them.) Sadly, the black hair seems to have done the trick. I went out today to look for a basic retail job to get some cashflow going, and people took me a lot more seriously now that I look normal. Ah well! The computer industry will pull itself together eventually...
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permalink #1464 of 1963: Neil Gaiman (neilgaiman) Wed 18 Sep 02 21:43
permalink #1464 of 1963: Neil Gaiman (neilgaiman) Wed 18 Sep 02 21:43
Erynn -- re BBC -- that's how WE CAN GET THEM FOR YOU WHOLESALE happened. Mimi -- it was great seeing you again. And the photo was astonishing. (Mimi does art.) JaNell -- you're welcome. Meg -- Scarlet's Walk is really yummy. Maure -- how would your comics cafe work? Adriana -- cubicular congrats... Pamela -- good seeing you at the signing. ... I enjoyed the Book Soup signing -- felt like Stealth Signings are definitely the way to go for a while, at least until I'm 100% healthy again. Held out well until almost the end, signing the dealer piles, when everything started to stop making sense (poor Holly, trying to explain to me that the birthday book she'd picked up had fallen open to her birthday) but luckily some nice person (I never found out who) had brought a gift of sushi, and I got into the car back, and nibbled it (actually mostly ate all the bits I didn't want, as Holly had first choice) and got blood sugar back up to human levels... Anyway, it was good to see everyone. Wellies and Thingies alike.
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permalink #1465 of 1963: Tara O'Shea (uisgejack) Wed 18 Sep 02 21:46
permalink #1465 of 1963: Tara O'Shea (uisgejack) Wed 18 Sep 02 21:46
Adriana Roze: "Haiku Tunnel" is very funny--especially for anyone who's ever been a temp. Revewed it for audiorevolution.com a few months back. I just watched "Donnie Darko" and spent the last half hour at donniedarko.com following the bread crumb trail. I'm still in a state of euphoria. yay! Now I have three movies on my list of time travel moveis that work! I'm all giddy and stuff. meg: will the blue dye work on dark hair? or only light?
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permalink #1466 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 22:32
permalink #1466 of 1963: meg (siozie) Wed 18 Sep 02 22:32
Neil - So I see, from your blog :) I can't wait to hear the rest of it. I keep hearing "Sorta Fairytale" on the radio, and its delicious! (All of this foody descriptors are making my tummy rumble...) Tara - Sadly, dark hair cannot be dyed over. In order to turn dark hair a lighter color it must be bleached or (this is bad, avoid it if you can) stripped of the darker dye. Sometimes, too, lighter hair has to be bleached in order to use the crazy colored vegetable dyes. The bleaching process damages the hair folicle enough that it become more porous and sucks in the hair color. These vegetable dyes aren't chemical, so they don't bond to the hair in the same way as your typical grocery store hair dyes. The black dye I used was Feria, which I got from the beauty salon so that I could also get a 10 volume developer, which is pretty mild. This dye will eventually fade and wash out to a lighter color, and fortunately for me it mixed in with the blue that was already on my hair. So I have some nice blue shimmeries when I stand in sunlight or halogens, and I think when this black fades it will fade to dark blue. When I go back to electric blue, I will use the same process I used the first time: as the roots grow out, bleach them and dye them with the Blue Mayhem. So as my hair grows out, I end up with blue roots and black ends. Its a really neat effect. I would pay good money to be able to just swallow a pill at night, to change my hair color for the next day. Patterns I would pay EXTRA for, but I suppose that would lead to advertizing, especially on, say, the heads of basketball players. It would be REALLY cool if they could also make the patterns blink... Hmm. Perhaps it's time I went to bed after all... *shuffle*
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permalink #1467 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Wed 18 Sep 02 22:51
permalink #1467 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Wed 18 Sep 02 22:51
Neil- Ha! That's amazing. And not surprising. I love "a sorta fairytale" too. I can't wait to hear the whole album. Adriana- No. You probably didn't. That new piano/keyboard thingy--ahh- I don't remember what it's called. It's not even new. She just started using it. I really, really like it now, but at first I was like, "weird. An 80's keyboard." But now, listening to the songs, I don't really know why I thought that. It fits the mood of the songs perfectly. I'm just weird. Tara- Donnie Darko is very addicting. I love it:)
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permalink #1468 of 1963: Daniel (dfowlkes) Thu 19 Sep 02 07:19
permalink #1468 of 1963: Daniel (dfowlkes) Thu 19 Sep 02 07:19
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permalink #1469 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Thu 19 Sep 02 07:54
permalink #1469 of 1963: Dodge (hnowell) Thu 19 Sep 02 07:54
I remember in Andromeda - the Kevin Sorbo thing - that Bekka Valentine's father genetically altered her hair so she could change the color whenever she wanted to. So, thinks I, WHY did she pick this dishwater sludge blonde stuff she runs around with? She demonstrated this ability to one of the others by changing her hair to pink and then to purple. Ah, there's an ability I'd pay big bucks for.
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permalink #1470 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Thu 19 Sep 02 08:07
permalink #1470 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Thu 19 Sep 02 08:07
I'd give my left something-or-another to be able to do that.
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permalink #1471 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Thu 19 Sep 02 09:08
permalink #1471 of 1963: Erynn Miles (erynn-miles) Thu 19 Sep 02 09:08
ack. Other. Not Another. I need to stay off the coffee.
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permalink #1472 of 1963: Dan Wilson (stagewalker) Thu 19 Sep 02 09:37
permalink #1472 of 1963: Dan Wilson (stagewalker) Thu 19 Sep 02 09:37
Adriana - sadly, I just couldn't get into Haiku Tunnel, which is a bummer since I know someone in the film, and several of my friends know the author/director/star. the thing I couldn't get past, though... was him. Lots of the side gags I loved, but I just wanted to bitch-slap him half the time. *sigh*
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permalink #1473 of 1963: Maure Luke (maureluke) Thu 19 Sep 02 10:48
permalink #1473 of 1963: Maure Luke (maureluke) Thu 19 Sep 02 10:48
Mary, I didn't like temping when I did it, but that was NYC, and I got placed in some pretty shitty offices. I'm crossing my fingers for my interview tomorrow. I already told the manager about having to cut back hours a lot when I start school (he called me at home, apparently to chat, after we'd set up the interview -- is that a good sign?), and he didn't seem too worried about it. I want this job -- having to budget is killing me. There's so much great stuff happening this fall, I have to be able to afford it. Adriana, I'm thrilled you have your own cubicle too! When you start living a real life Office Space, I'll quote lines from it with you. ;) Neil, I've been slowly rolling different concepts around in my head since I was 18. I didn't want to go to college after high school, so my godfather offered to lend me the money to open a coffee shop. I declined, because the idea terrified me at the time, but since then I've been mentally planning one. In my head, it sells collected issue books only, but I don't know how viable that is. Warren Ellis has been hooking me up with retailers who've been in the business for a while, so once I'm more sure of the availability of the capital, I'll start looking into how feasible it would be to forego selling individual issues. I'd like to make it more of a book shop, with the books being graphic novels. If at all possible, I want to include a small raised level in a corner, for readings or signings (and Megan insists that her one-acts will be a big hit, but I don't know about that). The cafe end will specialize mostly in teas, but we'll do the coffee thing too. At this point, it's more of a vaguely conceivable idea than an actual plan, but every once in a while, something falls into place which makes it more do-able. Ideally, people would come in for a tea or coffee, sit down, flip through one of the reading copies of a graphic novel, like it, and then buy their own copy. Like I said, I don't even know whether it could ever in a million years work, but I'd really like to try it. Some day.
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permalink #1474 of 1963: Shawn Shelby (shawnshelby) Thu 19 Sep 02 12:44
permalink #1474 of 1963: Shawn Shelby (shawnshelby) Thu 19 Sep 02 12:44
Maure - vaguely concievable or not, it's definitely a place I'd love to patronize! [In the nice way where I give you lots of money and hang out there until you kick me out, not the other way :) ] As with everything buisness, I guess it comes down to how much money is going in and how much is going out. Would it, I presume, be based in Chicago? Any areas around town you think would make it viable?
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permalink #1475 of 1963: from LINDA CASTELLANI <castle> (tnf) Thu 19 Sep 02 12:48
permalink #1475 of 1963: from LINDA CASTELLANI <castle> (tnf) Thu 19 Sep 02 12:48
This is from inkwell.vue co-hst Linda Castellani: Hi Everybody - I've been in self-imposed exile from the WELL for about a month now. I had them change my password and not tell me what it was, and <cdb> has graciously taken over my hosting duties until my return. I had to do this because I really want my jewelry business and my Web site to succeed and I needed to be removed from the temptation to log into the WELL obsessively all day long whenever I felt the slightest bit bored or...just because I felt like it. I haven't even been peeking into inkwell because I figured I'd just miss you all too much, but when I saw the ad in today's San Francisco Chronicle that said "Congratulations Neil Gaiman, Winner of the 2002 Hugo Award for Best Novel" I shrieked, took a look at the hundreds of responses posted since I was last here and saw that you all were posting about this 100 responses ago. I'm already way out of the loop, but I wanted to send e-mail saying, "Woohoo! Neil! Congratulations! You rock!" and various and assorted congratulatory messages in that vein. And also to ask, in all seriousness, how do you remove yourself from distractions and actually focus on what you are trying to achieve? What's the secret? I desperately need to know. I also wanted to add my two cents to the recent thread on temping, having spent quite enough time, thank you,Jin that glorious profession myself. I thought that perhaps a brief anecdote about something that happened the last time I temped would illustrate why I probably shouldn't do it any more. I had a three-month assignment at North American Rockwell in a division headed by this very imposing colonel. He had the habit of coming into work wearing a casual jacket and changing into a dressier jacket and tie when he got to work. You could always tell whether or not he was at the office by glancing at the hook next to his door. If it held the casual jacket, he was at work, the jacket and tie indicated he'd gone home. So, one afternoon, his wife calls and asks for him. I glance at the hook and see the jacket and tie, and inexplicably blurt out, "I'm sorry, I know that he's gone for the day because he was dressed when he left." There was a long silence as she absorbed that information, while I simultaneously realized how very wrong it sounded. Unfortunately, as soon as I did, I started to laugh uncontrollably. I couldn't even get stop long enough to try and explain, and after a few seconds, she hung up. In the meantime, I'm on the floor making a spectacle of myself. Shortly thereafter I switched careers. Anyway, I miss you all and hope you are all well and wonderful and having lots of fun adventures in my absence. If you need to reach me, castle at well.com still works and all my mail gets forwarded to me. Love, Linda
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